Birth to week 2
The first days with your newborn
In the first days, most of your time may go into feeding, settling and recovering from birth. Your baby sleeps in short stretches and uses crying to ask for care. They can already notice close faces and familiar voices. A small early weight loss is common, and health professionals will check that weight begins to rise again.
Try this together
Hold your baby close enough to see your face. Speak softly, then pause. If they become still or look away, give them a break.
Open or share this chapterDevelopment & perceptionYour newborn sees best at close range and may turn towards a familiar voice.
Your newborn can see you up close
What may be changing
Being held, hearing familiar voices and receiving a response help your newborn feel safe and begin to learn.
A newborn may respond to sound or a close face with a small movement, a change in expression or stillness.
What to notice
Notice which voices, faces or everyday sounds bring a small change in gaze, movement or stillness.
Try this
Hold your baby close enough to see your face. Speak softly, then pause. If they become still or look away, give them a break.
Sources
Responsive interaction and everyday talking can begin from birth.
- World Health Organization, UNICEF and World Bank GroupResponsive caregiving and opportunities for early learning · checked 2026-08-28
- NHSBaby and toddler activity guidance · checked 2026-08-28
From birth to 3 months, babies begin recognising important voices and may react, calm, smile or change feeding in response to sound. These are broad observations, not a one-response home test.
- National Institute on Deafness and Other Communication DisordersYour baby’s hearing and communicative development checklist: Birth to 3 Months · checked 2026-08-29
Crying & regulationCrying is one way your newborn tells you they need care, even when the reason is not clear.
Crying asks for care
What may be happening
Hunger, tiredness, a wet nappy, wind, temperature, closeness and overstimulation can all lead to crying. Sometimes the cause remains unclear.
What to notice
Start with immediate needs such as feeding, warmth, a clean nappy and closeness. Notice whether the cry sounds different from usual or comes with poor feeding or signs of illness.
How to help
Try one calm response at a time. If you feel overwhelmed, place your baby safely in their cot, step away briefly, settle yourself and return. Never shake a baby.
Sources
Crying communicates a need for care, although its cause is not always identifiable. Responsive caregiving means noticing and responding appropriately to signals.
- NHSOpening guidance, common reasons, soothing, illness and safe-pause sections · checked 2026-08-28
- World Health Organization, UNICEF and World Bank GroupResponsive caregiving and opportunities for early learning · checked 2026-08-28
SleepNewborns sleep in short stretches throughout the day and night.
Sleep comes in short stretches
What is typical
Newborns do not follow a set schedule. Feeding and sleep can change from one day to the next.
Look at the full day
Look at sleep across the full day and night, including short dozes during or after feeds.
What may help
Keep night care quiet and dim while allowing ordinary light and household sound during the day.
Sources
Newborn sleep is distributed across day and night and varies substantially.
- NHSNewborn and 3-to-6-month sections · checked 2026-08-28
FeedingNewborn feeds are often frequent and uneven. Follow your baby's cues rather than waiting for a set time.
Feed when your baby shows they are hungry
What feeding may look like
For breastfeeding, NHS guidance gives 8 to 12 feeds or more in 24 hours as a rough guide during the first weeks, not a quota. Bottle-fed babies also tend to feed little and often. Paced feeding lets them pause and stop. Follow any individual clinical feeding plan you have been given.
Look for these cues
Watch for rooting, hand-to-mouth movement, pauses and turning away rather than waiting for the clock.
What you can do
Bring your baby close at early hunger cues and let pauses or fullness end the feed. Follow any individual feeding plan you have been given.
Sources
In the first weeks, feeding is typically frequent and cue-led. NHS describes 8 to 12 or more breastfeeds per 24 hours as a rough breastfeeding guide. Bottle-fed babies also feed little and often and should control pauses and fullness.
GrowthA small early weight loss is common. Most babies are back to their birthweight by 3 weeks.
Weight is checked in the first weeks
How growth is assessed
A small weight loss is common after birth. NICE says it usually stops after 3 or 4 days, and most babies return to their birthweight by 3 weeks.
What to look at
Tell your midwife or health visitor about poor feeding, fewer wet nappies or anything else that worries you.
When to ask
Ask for feeding help if your baby's weight has not started to recover as expected.
Sources
Some weight loss is common in the first days, usually stops after 3 to 4 days, and most infants regain birthweight by 3 weeks.
- National Institute for Health and Care ExcellenceRecommendations 1.1.1–1.1.4 · checked 2026-08-29
- NHS‘How often should my baby be weighed?’, ‘Understanding your baby's weight chart’ and ‘What centile lines mean’ · checked 2026-08-29